A Lotus For You ~ Greeting Someone

A lotus for you,

a Buddha to be.

The following excerpt is from Present Moment, Wonderful Moment by Thich Nhat Hanh

Greeting Someone

The tradition of joining our palms together and bowing when we meet someone is very beautiful. Millions of men and women in Asia greet each other this way every day. When someone offers me a cup of tea, I always bow respectfully. As I join my palms, I breathe in and say, “A lotus for you.” As I bow, I breathe out and say, “A Buddha to be.” To join our palms in a lotus bud is to offer the person standing before us a fresh flower. But we have to remember not to join our palms mechanically. We must be aware of the person we are greeting. When our respect is sincere, we remember that he or she has the nature of a Buddha, the nature of awakening.

It is necessary for us to see the Buddha in the person before us. If we practice this way regularly, we will see a change in ourselves. We will develop humility, and we will also realize that our abilities are boundless. When we know how to respect others, we also know how to respect ourselves.

As I bow, mindfulness becomes real in me. Seeing my deep reverence, the person to whom I bow also becomes awake, and he or she may like to form a lotus and bow to me, breathing in and out. With one greeting, mindfulness becomes present in both of us as we touch the Buddha with our hearts, not just with our hands. Suddenly, the Buddha in each of us begins to shine, and we are in touch with the present moment.

Sometimes we think that we are superior to others – perhaps more educated or intelligent. Seeing an uneducated person, a feeling of disdain may arise, but this attitude does not help anyone. Our knowledge is relative and limited. An orchid, for example, knows how to produce noble, symmetrical flowers, and a snail knows how to make a beautiful, well-proportioned shell. Compared with this kind of knowledge, our knowledge is not worth boasting about, even if we have a Ph.D. We should bow deeply before the orchid and the snail and join our palms reverently before the monarch butterfly and the magnolia tree. Feeling respect for all species of living beings and inanimate objects will help us recognize a part of the Buddha nature in ourselves.

In the West, you may prefer to shake hands. But if you greet others mindfully and respectfully, whatever form you use, the Buddha is present. Forming a lotus bud with your hands is very pleasant. I hope you will try it from time to time. If a tulip blossom is more familiar for you to envision, you may want to say, “A tulip for you, a Buddha to be.” A tulip possesses the Buddha nature just like a lotus.

11 comments

    • ๐Ÿ™ A lotus for you too, Ashley. ๐Ÿ˜Š
      Have you got anything nice planned for today?
      I’m just about to take the dogs out and then hoping to get to the allotment for a while. ๐Ÿ…

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      • Not a lot, Lesley, maybe a walk along the canal. Perhaps down to the shore of Lough Neagh at least there we can have a cup of tea in the Discovery Centre. Lately, the weather has been very changeable so we will wait until the morning to decide. We won’t go very far, although I’m planning a trip to our north coast, to catch some waves (on my camera). We are both retired so every day is a weekend ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™‚๏ธ

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      • That sounds lovely, Ashley. I googled Lough Neagh and the Discovery Centre. We have something similar at a nearby nature reserve, though we’re not very patient birdwatchers. We hear them, but don’t often see many. We have more luck spotting the otters. My hubby is still working, but I’m at home and regularly have to ask what day it is! I didn’t get up to the allotment today as it began to rain and was a bit wet to work in, but the dogs and I had an extended walk. Your trip to the north coast sounds good. I’m glad you’ll only be photographing the waves – was watching a programme on t.v. earlier about the RNLI having to rescue surfers who’d been carried out to sea! ๐Ÿ™‚โ˜”๐Ÿ‘

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  1. I liked the explanation of the tradition of joining the palms and bowing as a greeting. The respect that we have for others and nature has diminished throughout the years. This would be a great tradtion to teach our youth of today to show more respect. Thanks for this, Lesley.

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    • I think it’s a great tradition that I would love to see us adopt here in the west – much better than the elbow bump we did during Covid instead of shaking hands.
      Thanks Sabishi. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  2. Wonderful post! I enjoyed the point about human knowledge compared to the amazing knowledge of the natural world. We can’t create flowers or snail shells. Every species has its gifts to the earth.

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